Cincinnati couple receiving premarital counseling

Premarital Counseling for Cincinnati Couples

At The Dudeist Ministers, we believe that building a strong foundation for your marriage is just as important as the vows you exchange. That’s why we offer premarital counseling based on the renowned Gottman Method, which emphasizes effective communication, conflict resolution, and deep emotional connection. Our approach is tailored to fit couples of all races, backgrounds, and lifestyles, fostering an inclusive environment where everyone feels supported and understood. We don’t just talk about the skills you need for a successful marriage; we guide you in developing them through hands-on exercises designed to give you real-life experience navigating the challenges and joys of partnership.

Our premarital counseling sessions go beyond traditional counseling by incorporating practical activities that bring you closer as a couple. Whether it’s practicing active listening, learning to express appreciation, or role-playing solutions to common conflicts, these exercises are engaging and actionable. Our goal is to create a safe space where you can explore your strengths and address potential roadblocks together. With our guidance, you’ll leave each session feeling more connected, confident, and ready to face married life as a united team. Because no matter who you are or where you come from, love deserves the chance to thrive—and we’re here to help you nurture it.

While I am not a licensed therapist, I have training in the Gottman Method, a research-based approach to building strong and healthy relationships. My background as a social worker and years of experience volunteering to help individuals and families in crisis have equipped me with the understanding and empathy to support couples from all walks of life. I am deeply committed to creating a judgment-free environment where couples feel safe to share their unique experiences and challenges. This combination of professional training and real-world experience allows me to guide couples with practical tools and compassionate insight, ensuring they feel supported and empowered as they prepare for marriage.

Our Counseling Process

Understanding Each Other

Understanding your partner’s attachment and communication style is key to building a strong and lasting connection. I help couples identify these styles through guided discussions and exercises, giving them tools to better understand each other’s needs and responses.

By recognizing how each of you approaches closeness, conflict, and expression, we can develop strategies that enhance your ability to communicate effectively and strengthen your emotional bond. This understanding fosters greater empathy and harmony, setting the foundation for a thriving relationship.

Conflict Resolution

Healthy conflict resolution is essential for any successful relationship. I guide couples in understanding the root causes of their disagreements and teach practical strategies to address conflicts constructively.

Through hands-on exercises, we focus on active listening, expressing feelings without blame, and finding solutions that respect both partners’ needs. By practicing these techniques, couples learn how to navigate challenges with mutual respect and cooperation, turning potential conflicts into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.

Real Experience

To help couples put what they learn into practice, we incorporate a comprehensive workbook, homework assignments, and engaging exercises into our sessions. These tools allow couples to apply the skills we discuss in real-life situations, building confidence and experience.

The workbook provides guided activities and prompts for reflection, while the homework encourages meaningful conversations and intentional time together between sessions. By practicing these techniques, couples develop the habits and understanding needed to strengthen their bond and navigate married life with confidence and ease.

Start your marriage on the right path with personalized premarital counseling! Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, improve communication, or prepare for life’s challenges together, we’re here to help. Call today to schedule your first session and take the next step toward building a strong, lasting partnership. Let’s create a solid foundation for your happily ever after!

No, as a registered minister in the state of Ohio I only provide relationship counseling. My process is based on my training as a social worker and the Gottman Method.

For more information please read section 4757.41 of the Ohio Registered Code

No, my counseling in secular and open to people of all beliefs and lifestyles

No, I am happy to help any couple that needs counseling

The number of sessions depends on the couple’s needs and goals. Some couples may benefit from just a few focused sessions, while others may prefer a more in-depth process over several weeks.

My minimum commitment is two sessions and includes a workbook for each of you. I offer an 8 week package at a discounted rate.

I am not licensed and cannot accept any insurance. I keep my services affordable and accept payment in cash or credit card

Yes, as long as you are based in Ohio I am able to offer you and your partner my premarital counseling services.

Premarital Counseling