Handfasting ceremonies are beautiful ceremonies that we don’t often see in the Cincinnati area. Handfasting is often chosen by people who want a ceremony that is meaningful but without the traditional Christian connotations. Originally handfasting ceremonies were for a specific amount of time but we phrase our language that the bond is for “a lifetime of love shared”.
Handfasting can be part of the traditional “I do” style vows but most of my couples write their own vows to recite as we wrap their hands. Then our couples stay bound together as we finish the ceremony and any other traditions they want such as an exchange of rings or the kiss.
The wrap can be a beautiful ribbon or cloth like in the picture above ore a simple cord or rope. The important thing is that my couples pick something that is important to them.
Handfasting is becoming more popular in Cincinnati and we really like that because it allows for a ceremony that is much more unique. I personally think it attracts couples because it is multicultural and doesn’t have the religious overtones of other ceremonies. It is a beautifully symbolic ceremony and I love performing them.